CHANGING YOUR TAQDEER WITH DUA DUA AND MORE DUA………13:42

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وَقَد مَكَرَ ٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبلِهِم فَلِلَّهِ ٱلمَكرُ جَمِيعًا‌ يَعلَمُ مَا تَكسِبُ كُلُّ نَفسٍ وَسَيَعلَمُ ٱلكُفَّـرُ لِمَن عُقبَى ٱلدَّارِ (٤٢)

Those before them did (also) devise plots; but in all things the master planning is Allah’s. He knoweth the doings of every soul: and soon will the Unbelievers know who gets home in the End. (42)

People of the past did trickery with their messengers, but Allah is the master planner.

Allah knows what each soul has earned, we are not aware of the details of what we have done and what weight do they carry. But Allah Subhnawaata’ala knows the details of each persons efforts. The kuffar will know who will have a good end.

DUA AND TAQDEER

Dua of the Sahaba:

The Sahaba used to worry about their taqdeer and did not know where they were going to end, but knew without a doubt of the power of Allah Subhanawataala and used to make this dua:

“O Allah if you have written our name in the losers then please erase it  from that list and place it in the people who are the winners in those with a happy end (Khush Kismet)) and if you have written our name in the winners then keep us steadfast worthy of our place on that list.”

Umar RA has been reported to cry while making this dua, in his tawaf around the Kaaba:

“O Allah, If you  have written loss (badbakht) and sin for me, then please  erase it because you can erase what you want and keep whatsoever you want. You have the Loh e Mahfooz , please change my badbakhti to saadat “

One should never give up hope in Allahs power.

Thus the message to us from Allah Subhanawataala is that every thing is with Allah so the basis of this is to submit to his power and oneness in our heart and with our actions all the time, this includes active tawheed as well as wijdani tawheed.

58 thoughts on “CHANGING YOUR TAQDEER WITH DUA DUA AND MORE DUA………13:42

  1. I am religious throughout my whole life than common people. I always show more dedication to Allah. But Allah has never given me anything good. And my tear is dropping during typing. Allah has always selected His other servants instead of me for giving them happiness, fame, money, beauty although many of them are less pious than I am. I have never gotten what I wanted though I have done more than enough Dua.

    • ASA ALif, If Allah showed his approval by giving worldly goods then look at his most beloved abd Prophet Muhammad pbuh. Your and my time on this earth is a journey of purification for our final abode in Jannah. Refine yourself with Prophet Muhammad pbuh ikhlaaq and Prophet Ayubs sabr and Prophet Noahs persistence and inshallah the doors of Jannah will open for you and you will get what ever you want for ever and ever! Amen!

    • ASA, If you love what you do and it is halal earnings then your rizq will come to you easily, if it is not halal it will still come but maybe with difficulty. If you have given it enough time and it is not working, try a change in place, setting, type of practice and perhaps do some sadaqa work for the poor and the oppressed and their duas will benefit you inshallah!.
      Allah knows best!

  2. 10saal. Se bht paresam hun job proper kahi nhi miltha 2bache bhi h kiraki makaan mr rehtha hun. Kuch samajme nhi atha kiya kare kiya kismath hai hamari ma paab ko bhi kushi nehi de paraha hun

  3. Assalam o Alaikum .
    My husband is good in caring .but mostly he becomes angry & fight .I tried a lot for peace but failed. He becomes anger in little things which makes me unhappy. Pls suggest me dua or whatever for my goodness even he & me gives lot of sadqas Pray 5 times. But these issues make me very disappointed.

  4. Assalamuvalaikum , mere husband k business k lite dua kijiye unka business loss may jara aur kharza b bhaut hai. Mera saath b ache nhi rahete. Gusse may rahete mera care nhi karte….

    • Walaikum Asalaam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatahu! Allah aap ki madad farmai or aap ki mushkil aasaan karay. Quran Paak may Allah ney kaha hay kay aap salat parhay or sadaqa dain, agar paysay ka nahin to khidmat ka dain. Inshallah ALlah sunnay go or halal ki rozi day gaa. Ameen

  5. Assalaamu alaikum i want you to pray for me last year i had some health problem but my test were clear then i take anxiety medicine for six month i was ok but now again i feel not that serious but some thing in my stomach all my family say it is anxiety i am always sad and worried my mind is not in peace i am also not married i am too old too i didn’t marry before its my fault but now i want but i am worried about my health i pray lot i am somebody told me to read durood syeduna kareemun (SAW) as much as i can some time i am ok but sometime i feel lost and helpless please pray for my health and marriage and other dua for my peace of mind i have lot belive in Allah but i don’t know what is wrong

    • Walaikum asalaam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatahu,
      Cleanse your heart and your life, remove the disobedience of Allah and replace with obedience of Allah. Give sadaqa, and do a lot of istighfaar, when the worrying thoughts enter your mind, do istighfaar and start working hard at home or outside. May Allah reward your efforts, Our duas are with you.
      Salaams!

    • Don’t worry Asma. InshaALLAH everything will be fine. Just eat well sleep well think less and pray enough and at last keep yourself fit. You will meet your Mr. Perfect. Just do one thing completely change urself except religion.

  6. Can you please translate in Arabic “O Allah if you have written our name in the losers then please erase it from that list and place it in the people who are the winners in those with a happy end (Khush Kismet)) and if you have written our name in the winners then keep us steadfast worthy of our place on that list.”

  7. Slmz! Plz mak dua 4 me n my family! I hav struggled all my lyf n nw I’m so tired! Need allahs help 4 a peacefully n comfitable lyf! I’m in worst situation nw dan I ever waz! Jzk

  8. Please pray for me and my family becasue for the past 15years we are facing lots of problems and financial cirses I request you to all please pray to Allah for me and my family also same like persons who are suffering in this world.

  9. Jazakallu khair
    I wish I can be at kaabah crying for change of taqdir
    I have always got ‘badluck’ for years and now a loser
    So confuse and trap trying hard to change my life
    Please pray for me

  10. Assalamu Alaikum please make duaa for me and my family.. We are in serious financial crisis. Allah should bring Taqwa in our hearts and bring us on the straight path Insh Allah

    • All the duas in Hisnul Muslim are excellent and came from our rasool pbuh.
      It is always best to start with cleansing yourself with Istighfaar and ayat e Kareema.
      May Allah shower you with His barakah and may you always be obedient to Him in every step of your life, Ameen!

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  12. Dear Mobz
    Assalamulaikum
    “becoz Allhamdu LLilah my experience is that God listen to all our prayers all the tyme…and what ever happens it happens for some good.which we dont realize at that moment…Thanks” I dont know what is your experience but I hope you never have to prove it.
    Regards

    • Asalaam o alaikum!
      Here is what I understand from the Quran and Hadith:
      The answer of some duas is immediate, some duas collide with a calamity and lessen it and some are held as a gift for Akhirah (where we will need all the possible Khair available, because our book of deeds will be closed)
      Allah knows best!

  13. You are right. when i wrote it i was passing from very bad m4ental and physical condition. Allah has blesses me with His blessings and showed me SIRAT E MUSTAQEEM. Alhamdulilah. JazaAllah for your counselling. Allah bless you. Regards
    Aleena

  14. dear aleena
    i have something to say to u.after reading ur problem..it is hundred percent true that life changes with dua..but it is also true that God test ( azmaish ) to his beloved human beings ..God can give anything anytyme and take it back at any tyme.when it take it back somthing then may be its is becoz we are given sentence e to our some bad deed or may b it is just an azmaish or may be becoz of oue groor ..whenever we get something as a result of dua we should thanks all the tyme to Allah and never guroor..u must analyze urself wat is happening to u…U cab get job again and be married again with dua..if u believe in God and pray with ur full heart for His merci…contious pray and say istagfar for ur sinns …then i m sure u will get what u want but have patience for the fullfillment of prayers ,becoz Allhamdu LLilah my experience is that God listen to all our prayers all the tyme…and what ever happens it happens for some good.which we dont realize at that moment…Thanks

  15. sis Aleena..
    there r some types of taqdeer, one of them is called “TAQDEER MUTLAQ” which can not be change, e.g MOTH, RIZQ, i think marrage also includ in this type of taqdeer, lekn mery khyal wahi shaks kamyab he jo ALLAH k key huy kaam ko accept kary….” q k whi hota he jo ALLAH chahta he… my e.mail adress yaserkhan81@yahoo.com

  16. CORRECTION IN TEXT
    3rd kalma for 150000 for the purpose of marriage. we whole faamily read n i regularly gave saqda every month.afterwards, family n me read AYAT e KAREEMA ..for 125000 times which is conciderd a dua of 3 darknessess.

  17. I think the hadith that dua can change taqdeer is zaeif. its not true. Its my experience that fate never changes.Allah has written it and thats all. I have experienced it myself. I was 3 years old when my father died. we are 5 sisters and 1 bro. we are struggled hard and got higher education. my mother is very pious lady.. I spent my whole life very carefully n seriously. I wanted to have marraige which is sunnah but it was getting late. i am younger and fear from my nafas who can put me in evil way.so i had great desire for marriage.Many times i thought its my fate to remain single but then with a hope that dua can change my taqdeer. i keep on trying and praying. i was trying to be contented on being single when some pious lady suggested me to read 3rd kalma for 250000 for the purpose of marriage.which is conciderd a dua of 3 darknessess we whole faamily read n i regularly gave saqda every month.afterwards, family n me read AYAT e KAREEMA ..for 125000 times. after some months i got married but i had to take khula just after two months of marriage as my husband ws a total cheater. he did not pay me haqmahar and never wanted to bear my expenses n pressurized me for job to bear my expenses on my own. He did not had walima as e was in sog of her mother death.e never wanted kid. e was miser in case of sex and romance.i was surprised at his attitude meanwhil i came to know that he is already married n had 4 kidz. In nikah nama he showed himself bechelor. Anyways i did estikhara n answer was negative. so i took khula. Now i am single again. HOW CAN DUA CHANGE FATE. taqdeer is writtten by Allah and never changes. if i would not have believed it then today i would be in a better physical and mental state. i m so depressed n jobless due to this marriage. all my saving spent on marriage which was the money of an orphan girl. taqdeer nhe badalti. plz ye bat maan lo

    • sister Aleena
      we also listnd from ulamae karam thate taqdeer will changed with dua. lekin ap ka qismat to change hogai dua se, lekin ALLAH tala ke marzi nai te, wo ALLAH tala ne sirf ap ke dua se change kia. ab aap ye sochye es par. ab mujy be ek problem he jes ke waja se me boht tense hn, ab me be sochta hn k kia dua se ye hal hoga??? dekty he k ALLAH taala kia karty he??

      • Bro Yaser
        many questions have no answers. we have to accept them as they are.
        ketay hain k jab koi dua qabool na ho rahe ho tu es ka matlab ha ke wo kam apke lie acha nhe ha. Lekin jab ensan dua karta ha tu wo aik complete dua karta ha. ma ne sirf shadi honay ki dua nhe ki the balkah aik pleasant marital life ki dua ki the. Kia dua elements mein qabool hoti ha…. not as a whole.
        can any one answer???

    • ASSLAMO ALAIKUM ALEENA ‘ALLAH always do better for us.I know many examples like you but after some time I saw very happy to them.So its my advise to not loose your heart and say dua to ALLAH all time for your future ALLAH knows what’s better for you.And also recite this dua(RABBANA ITINA FIDDUNYA HASANATANWA FILAAKHIRATI HASANATANWA QINA AZABANNAR)INSHA ALLAH ALLAH WILL CHANGE YOUR DISTINY

      • Rassid aslam, Would you believe how much dua i made. I used to weep in dua, as i never wanted a illegal relationship with any man. I prayed for a loving husband. My friends and family know i never did harm anyone in life. Then so bad happened to me.The only desire i had was a loving husband. My marital relation failed badly. Now who would marry a divorced lady of age 35 with average looks? I have also seen people happy after such cases but may be other factors might had contributed for making them happy. I am still…

  18. I was on tension,but now I can say with full trust that ‘with dua and sadkah and salat taqdir can be changed.’mohammad (sal ) say that none problem can obtain sadkah'(hadithe mafhoom).One should be forbidden from haram thing,from sin.and should be do dawba from past sin and make strong niyat for doing nek amal always.pleas make dua for me.allah hafez.

  19. i hear that taqdeer can be changed by dua from hadith of nasaie.but it can be jaiefe hadith.but i wish it will be true.i see some dream what comes true on future.now a days i m seeing bad dreams what can be true.i m on tension and praying for change my taqdeer.but i m hopeless about dis.please pray for me.

  20. Walaikum Asalaam wa rahmatullah i wa barakatahu
    Here are some duas pertaining to your topics;
    https://asqfish.wordpress.com/2009/10/22/a-dua-for-when-muslims-fight-muslims/
    and
    https://asqfish.wordpress.com/2009/09/28/dua-for-all-those-who-are-at-the-end-of-their-strength/
    and
    https://asqfish.wordpress.com/2009/09/30/dua-the-final-wish/
    and
    https://asqfish.wordpress.com/2009/09/10/a-supplication-for-anxiety/
    and if you type DUA in the search section of this blog in the top left corner you will find larger selection.
    May Allah reward you for trying to bring solace in difficult times.

  21. Asslamulaikum.
    I have been trying to find dua’s for the poverty stricken and the war stricken, without any success…
    If anyone could help it would be much appreciated
    Kindest Regards. x

  22. Walaikum asalaam wa rahmatullah e wa barakatahu!

    In your saying this: “That is why I do not ask or try to find any explanations now a days. If there is an injunction I simply follow it.”

    You have truly found submission which is the essence of our Deen.

    Please pray for me, Paul Shireen and Tariq at Hajj.

    May Allah Subhanawataala give you Hajj e Mabroor!

  23. Dear Sister,
    Asslamulaikum.
    I didnot want these 11 days only. I wanted to have a normal life like most people, dying with the knowledge that my son will have a life of his own.
    I think sister it was better in the old days when I saw my elders honouring the Quran without understanding a single word. Their belief was as strong or more than those of us who have the oppurtunity to know the meaning. Now there are so many questions in my mind which I dare not ask even. If I sincerely believe that Allah Knows Best, then why do we try to find explanations. That is why I donot ask or try to find any explanations now a days. If there is an injuctions I simply follow it.
    Pray for us so that we can complete Hajj withh all formalities as shown by the Prophet (PBUH).
    Regards

  24. Walaikum Asalaam wa Rahmatullah e wa barakatahu brother Anis,

    Perhaps the caveat of which we have no knowledge is when is the dua heard? and whether what is done is best for all the players.

    Perhaps your duas got you eleven days with Nabeel, and my lack of it got me none.

    Allah knows best!

  25. Dera Sister
    Assalamulaikum.
    Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 57 Surah Hadid verses 22-23:
    22 No misfortune can happen on earth or in your souls but is recorded in a Decree before We bring it into existence: that is truly easy for Allah:
    If we follow this verse that how can you say that we can change our taqdir with prayers. My proof is my life. When Nabeel was sick, over the 11 days, the amount of dua that was made would have changed the outcome unless it was preordained by Allah. It was preordained that my son would die from this disease and it was preordained that we would all pray for him. I remember reading somewhere, that when the foetus reaches a certain age, Angels are sent to determine three things, one of which is the time of death. I am not an expert but these informations are confusing. If we get to change the outcome by dua then why some children survive and others die, despite whole hearted prayer by the mothers. I am sure no one can question the sincerety of the dua of a mother for her child.
    Regards

  26. Walaikum Asalaam wa rahmatullah e wa barakatahu!
    Sister Zubeida, the duas were only repeated in Urdu by Dr.Farhat Hashmi, which I have translated here.
    If I come across the original arabic dua, I will inshallah post it, and if you find it before me, please post it in your comment.
    jazaaik Allah hu Khairan.

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